Dating Scam – Anyone else dealt with this in Pune or Mumbai?

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I met a guy named Karanveer on Aisle, thinking I was finally meeting someone real. Instead, I ended up losing INR 30k and dealing with a lot of emotional manipulation.

How It Started:
At first, he seemed so kind and caring, saying he wanted to marry me and build a life together. I was hesitant, but he said all the right things, and I decided to give him a chance. I ignored my doubts when I couldn’t find any of his personal or work details online. I kept telling myself it would be fine, but now I realize how foolish that was.

The Manipulation:
He showed up uninvited and told me he didn’t have his house keys, so he couldn’t leave. He guilt-tripped me into letting him stay, saying he had nowhere else to go. I felt sorry for him and agreed. Later that night, he got drunk, made me talk about my past traumas, and although I stayed awake, I tried to be understanding. He made me order alcohol and even cigarettes for him, saying he couldn’t find them anywhere. Me being naive, I went ahead and got them for him.

The next day, he asked me for money, claiming his car needed repairs after a tire burst. I said no at first, but his constant texts and calls wore me down. He acted desperate, and I ended up sending him INR 30k. Later, he said he hurt his back and needed INR 2.5 lakh for surgery, which I refused.

The Lies Unravelled:
He said he was British, but his accent and stories didn’t add up. He didn’t even know the UK’s national anthem and quickly changed the subject. That night, I noticed he had two phones, and one had strange notifications, including a small INR 29 debit for Jio Cinema. When I confronted him, he denied everything and stopped responding.

How I Feel Now:
I can’t believe I let myself be manipulated. I thought I was helping someone, but he took advantage of my kindness. It’s not just about the money; it’s about how he betrayed my trust. The guilt and anger are overwhelming. I even skipped out on plans with friends for him, and now I regret it all. I don’t even know if I can go to the police—I’m afraid they’ll just ridicule me.

I also missed my EMI payment because of the money I sent him just a day before it was due.

What I Have:
I have his car details, his Instagram account, and his WhatsApp number. But I don’t know if that’s enough to take action.

I Need Advice:

  1. Should I go to the police?
  2. Is there any chance of getting my money back?
  3. How can I deal with the trust issues I now have with people in general?
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Just a heads-up for everyone: if you’re new here, be careful with private messages. Scammers might reach out, claiming they can help recover your money for a small fee. These are recovery scammers, and you should never trust them. Always take advice in public, here in the forum, where the community can keep an eye out for you. If you ever get contacted privately, it’s better to ignore them.

Also, please remember to report anything suspicious. The forum is here to help, but we can’t do it alone. Stick to the rules, and let’s keep it safe for everyone!

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  1. No

  2. I wouldn’t count on it without spending even more money.

  3. Maybe dye your hair and get a tattoo, that could help you move on.

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That sounds like a hobosexual to me. Honestly, it wasn’t that much to get rid of such a person. Black cherry hair might be a good change.

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You really need to learn how to say no and block people. It might have saved you from all this.